Talia Goshen
Dealing with death
Death is the only certain thing in our lives, and yet, most of us refuse to acknowledge the possibility of our own death, are unable to talk about our own death, and certainly fail to prepare for it properly.
Awareness and preparation for the end of life varies from person to person and from case to case. In our meetings, I provide you with guidance and support, comfort with the pain, and help in coping with the difficult emotions that arise upon receiving the news of an incurable disease - emotions such as terror, anxiety, despair, helplessness, and many others.
I come to you personally and, if you wish, to your family and relatives as well, wherever you are: at home, in the assisted living facility, in a neutral place like a cafe, in nature: on the beach or in the park, in the clinic, in the hospital or in the hospice.
I come with an open heart, without criticism, without judgment, free from any particular religious belief regarding death, and with a rich toolbox from which I will offer you the best of my experience - whatever your faith may be.
By working with various techniques, we will deal with the approaching death in its spiritual and physical aspects.
Painful are tubers, if watered properly they will grow stems, painful tuber flowers are the most beautiful of flowers Graffiti on 4 Shabazi Street, Tel Aviv, 2021
- Medical, bureaucratic, legal, nursing, emotional and spiritual care
- We will discuss end-of-life decisions
- We will examine whether it is right for us and in what ways we would like to immortalize ourselves.
- We will try to resolve conflicts that remain open in order to leave the world in peace (unfinished business)
- We will write a spiritual will
- We will organize the house, the objects that have accumulated over the course of our lives, the photos and letters, and sort: what goes for documentation, what for delivery, and what for recycling.- We will read and write texts
- We will prepare farewell and remembrance boxes - physical capsules intended for our loved ones to open and use after our death.
- We will pray | We will listen to music | We will sing and dance | We will remember and enjoy favorite delicacies | We will practice meditation and mindfulness | We will experience touch
- Together we will seek the ways that will allow you to live in peace, spiritual integrity, and mental fullness until your last breath.
Farewell Boxes - Together we prepare memory capsules intended for our relatives and loved ones to open and use after our death.
Approaching death is a once-in-a-lifetime opportunity for emotional and spiritual growth; the end of life is an inspiration for self-reflection, for defining and redefining what is truly important to us, for fulfilling longings and dreams, and for enabling a peaceful departure from the world. I call this the 'good death.'
"And the doctor is already talking about the end of the road, but I can put an end to fear, my eyes are open to see the sky, to see the blue of the sea, the green of the tree."
We are all children of life, Shalom Hanoch
